28 to publicly express their affection for one another with a sexy new photo! Lo cuddles up to the rapper, while he wraps his arms around her neck and nuzzles his face into her hair.And while Drizzy is giving the camera a sultry look, Jennifer has her eyes closed and a sweet smile on her face, looking so at ease and comfortable in his arms.A few things that work on men and women are artsy black-and-white photos, pictures where you’re playing a sport, and candid shots where you don’t look like you’re posing.A few things that don’t do well with men or women are pictures in sunglasses, pictures with crazy filters, photos at the beach, photos with someone who might be an ex, and selfies in general.So nothing was out of the ordinary when a female client in her 20s came to see me because she’d been blown off and hurt by a guy she really liked.“I saw his profile pictures, and I guess I should have seen the red flags,” she said sadly as she played with the zipper on her pink hoodie.My client, whom I’ll call Abby, was beating herself up because she had not seen from the beginning that the guy she’d been out with twice was a “player.” Abby continued to show me a few more of his pictures.“Hold on a minute!Pro photographers use complicated free-standing flash gear worth thousands of dollars for a reason: It’s hard to take a good photo using a regular camera’s flash.

The craziest part is that gender doesn’t seem to matter, because both men and women alike post pictures that send the wrong messages if their true goal is to find a good partner. Intelligence, attractiveness, and professional success are universal turn-ons, so it’s wise to be open about your strengths. The goal with your photos should be to show people your personality. (I don’t know about you, but the first guy sounds like a lot less trouble to me.)Ladies, You Too!

” I protested as she flipped through a couple that were, uh, problematic.

I focused on a picture of a fairly attractive dark-haired guy in a gym, with the photo zoomed in on his bicep muscle as he made a curl.

Is she really going to believe he wants to make things work if he’s out and about flaunting a mystery lady?

Both Drake, 30, and Jennifer Lopez, 47, took to Instagram on Dec.